For those of you who wanted to follow my “puppy progress”, I have this photo showing her the first day she opened her eyes, and at 6 months exactly.
This is my Rottie at 15 days old and on her 6th month birthday.:
She has been a lot of work as I am constantly training with her to be a gentles soul who can be trusted, and also a great friend and watchdog.
We kind of spoil her with love – but she has to earn her way by learning and since she goes in the 4 runner with me everywhere she has to be able to be trusted. She also lives in the house much of the time and she is doing great! So she gets spoiled a bit. I love these two photos.
The first is Dakota just sitting on her pillow. A bit of a chill in the room so I threw her blanket over her. 
This next one is my favorite. A pampered puppy watching a dog show on our 61 ” television. Cute, eh?

Puppy Photos
November 30, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienFYI Addendum to last post PLUS a NEW holiday!
November 28, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienRegarding ANYONE – shoppers, gays, lesbians, other cultures, black, white, purple – I AM NO ONE’S JUDGE! I believe we were born to worship God and love one another.
I wanted to be clear on that point. I just wanted to be clear, also, on the fact each of us has the right to keep what we know to be true, unblemished by bending to what “society” deems acceptable.
I will not change who I am, or what I believe, because pressure by peers and media expects me to do so. HOWEVER, that being said, no matter what anyone else believes, I would help another fellow human in need if I were able.
Shakespeare said, “This above all, to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night – the day – thou canst not then be false to any man.”
We are the best of each of us if we honor our own beliefs…but that doesn’t mean we should hate or war with others who don’t share our beliefs.
On the judging point: I have erred too much in my life to be anyone’s judge.
Just heard there is a new “tradition” (hhhahahhahahahha) in the making:
We now have “CYBER MONDAY: one of the biggest internet buying days”
or so says the media. Just another way to plant the buy-buy-buy seed in our heads.
Also heard a blurb that said “people are getting tired of being thrifty and are starting to buy”. Another seed planted to get people to spend what little money they have.
I guess someone doesn’t really realize for the working poor – the times are worse, not better! Oh well…….be happy. It’s the only choice.
This too shall pass.
Today was a lovely day.
November 24, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienMy husband and I spoke on the phone in the morning and at noon. He’s working out of town and we talk on the phone and use the internet to stay close. It was as if we hadn’t been together for 21 years. It was new and exciting because we are expressing life together.
I played with our “puppy”. She’s just six months and already she’s sixty-eight pounds. I sat in the grass and when I arose my bottom was soaking wet! It was great. It cooled my system right down in the fast approach of the winter season, day by day.
Dakota was bouncing off the walls; kind of like myself most of the time. She nuzzled my face and almost sat in my lap. She fell off and rolled over with her legs sticking straight up and started to snore. That’s the puppy!
I left all the worries I can’t resolve inside, aside for a bit. I enjoyed
living today.
When I hand watered some plants I stepped into the sun and could immediately visualize my entire body warming all at once, instead of increments.
I realized again, I didn’t have to be poured into anybody’s mold but my own – no matter what the circumstances.
Green leaves, geese using the roadway, a different and unique person at every corner. I took a breath and swept, and then took the trashcans out to the front. I just may call my husband to tell him I love him.
Look closely. Look around you. You are free to love and laugh and survive happily. For each wound in life you have strengthened in character, your Spirit, and your capacity to love, and even free to be happy in the hardest of times.
Don’t forget this. Life will squeeze in on you. Take a breath and expand your life with joy. I am working on doing the very same thing EACH DAY I am privileged to wake up in the morning!
A “Mini Break”
November 14, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienStop for a moment and sit back in your chair. Take one of those deep breaths in through the nose, and exhale from the mouth. Do it a few times. Remember: when stress enters we slow our breathing down – almost stop when we are angry! As you breathe think “I am relaxing myself, slowing my heart rate, lowering my blood pressure, maintaining optimum oxygen so I can think better, and giving myself and the only place I have to live (my body) – a few moments of regeneration!”
Believe me – it will do all those things for you. After a few breaths, stretch your arms up in the air, blink your eyes several times, wiggle your toes and if you need to take a bathroom break – don’t put it off! Do it now. The walk will do you good anyway and get that oxygen moving through the body again.
NO STRESS is worth your life! It will all work out somehow. Don’t add to your problems by stressssssssssing out!
If you need some daily help managing stress check out my website: http://www.stressmanagementmagic.com
What about this?
November 10, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienI vacuumed the floor for the second time today. It was necessary. It won’t turn mankind around the other way, but my floor will be clean for the next moment of my life.
My dreams of loving all mankind and making something better for some are not dashed to the ground. Perhaps in some distant moment to come some one will remember a kindness done for them, or a genuine pleasure to meet them greeting, or just a smile sincere.
The time is so brief and the challenge so immense. How can one live up to the desire God has for us to love Him? His is conditional love. The kind of conditions only God could bestow upon us.
The conditions are:
1. Love your God with all your heart and soul and mind,
2. Love your neighbor as you love yourself.
Seems simple at first. To me, loving God is easy.
But one has to sacrifice self. The bounty returns even better than that which was given. But that isn’t the point.
Remembering to love YOU is also part of the deal If you don’t love yourself, you cannot fully love someone else.
Think
November 6, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienYou have done nothing wrong if you have love and are able to forgive.
With hands to my heart I, in the depth of my being,
I still love, and how can I not forgive, having done so much to be forgiven for in this life.
Pain is not an enemy. It is a warning system in the making of this fine tapestry of human majesty and beauty. Lessons are to be learned. You know when those times are coming on and you the intensify building..
Use innate compounds of human anatomy to prepare and strengthen response. You feel it coming. You know you will be struck soon or you will be in this moment. I was. It will happen. Be forewarned to prepare for the ultimate test in Spirit tenacity.
Pain. Breath. Pain. Pray. Pain. Dissolve that which is past.
Pain. Open your chest to breathe and your heart to accept what is to come.
Sometimes in life you will be forced to let go of everything you know in order to move on – let go and move on.
Everyone is headed somewhere. Accept the challenge. Enjoy the voyage. The expedition is the point.
Does not life feel as if it is the pages in a book you read long ago? Memories stir from within; memories of another time and place.
Lift your heart, lift your eyes, lift your spirit, lift your love and compassion. Stay soft in your deep rivers of life. Work hard not to scatter who you are to lesser expectations.
Be kind. Be at ease. If you don’t know further than a moment – you join the ranks of us all.
There is just nothing you can do about all the rest. Choose your life wisely. Love.
Waste time?
October 20, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienCertainly. I know people who are “killing time” before they die. I hate wasting time.
Time is precious. LIfe is precious.
You my God, can it be happening? I read the signs and feel the poison in the air.
It is too intense. The sun lays directly on the horizon. I have forgotten to think.
I am scattered upon the earth trying to absorb the rays that penetrate me and throngs of the human kind, as long as change is time reverberates sandy nights, wind pushing my hair behind my cheeks and when the wind subsides, falling gently upon my shoulders and back. The wind filling my lungs with oxygen and need I say more. . I love you.
I love you Creator and Sacrificing Son who willing to face defilement for no other reason than love….
I will not question why. I will submit to love. How easy is this that is all that is asked?
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H1N1
October 20, 2009 by Marsha J. O'BrienMy son and his wife and four children have H1N1 virus. If you believe in a power beyod yourself and this planet – please pray for them – as well as all those on this planet with a heart and love.
This virus lets 99% off with only a serious bout of the flu, but for some, it is life-threatening. It is more than serious. I won’t have the vaccine, but I believe infants through young adults should.